For the diplomacy of lying in social relations

I leave you with three positions interesting: 1 - House failed I listened to the celebrations in one of the anthem written by, and was one of the persons next to me heard a house of verses nasheed ÝåãÓ in my ears, saying: "Wish you think of this House failed," said White, was my response is only a smile, because he did not know it was I who wrote nasheed, and happy to know the real opinion at home, though he knew it was I who wrote the nasheed told me his opinion frankly. 2 - Abu-sided Heard a young child his father talk about the guest who is sitting in their council, saying that his (Abu-sided) and went to the guest child pleaded not guilty and claimed the look on his face from the left and then from the right, as if looking for something, and when he asked the guest, why look, so he said: " I'm looking to the second I heard my father say that you Abu-sided "We wonder whether the house owner has the audacity to say this speech in front of the guest? 3 - Towers September 11 Husband went out of his home in New York on September 11 on the bombing of the towers, was the husband works in an office in one tower, and went to his girlfriend without the knowledge of his wife on the same day, and when the wife heard the explosion took related to her husband, but the mobile phone was switched off, then resumed contact repeatedly For a long time, and then open the phone following the conclusion of his job, I asked him emotionally: "Where are you?" He said to her a cold: "I'm in the office and why you always expect being?" He does not know that the FBI had turned to ashes, at that moment revealed the cover and that the lie that the husband of his wife. We need openness in our dealings and left to lie, but frankly sometimes be negative if the other party felt offended, we need to courtesy, for example, if the husband finds that his wife is not beautiful, it is not true that Issarhaa opinion, because if he told her his opinion would not accept to do so , and courtesy, here are required to maintain the marital relationship, it should not be like this woman, who said to her husband: "O my dear husband, you and I will enter heaven," he said to her: Why? She said: "because God has blessed your thanked, and your Aptlani patiently, God enters the patient and thankful Paradise" The use of this logic, even if it corresponds to the reality destroys relationships and eating away at the love between the souls, so we need to humility and mercy of God known as the same, and important that you stay courtesy of courtesy does not turn into hypocrisy, which remains an art in addressing the problem without a collision if the situation bears this command. Courtesy and honesty are not even good at a lot of people, and diplomacy in presenting ideas and interacting with others need to be honest, even if we kept on honesty and diplomacy in the art of dealing with others we were able to solve many of our family and other family that are often the result of deception and lies, treason, , or lack of wisdom in dealing with matters.